All the butterflies and the head rush that are usually there during the beginning of a romantic affair slowly wear off as times goes by and you find yourself wanting to take a step back from all that but not call things off yet. In most relationships, there is always a stage where you both want to spend endless times together and even going forth to create time away from normal free time so as to get to be together. With time, the chemistry and butterflies fade away and reality kicks in calling for the need for you to want to slow things down but not necessarily end the affair. This is very normal and should not be a cause of turmoil to you as there are essential guidelines on how you can do that and not end up destroying things between you and the significant other. Follow on the tips below to get to slow down the pace of the relationship without having to call things off.
The ideal thing to begin with as you look to slow things down and not call things off is by thinking it over. For the sole fact that you have come to the point where you feel that things need to be taken at a slower pace, then it means that you are not comfortable with the how fast things are moving. Take some time and think it over to establish the reason why you need a breather. If you are growing less fond of her by the day, be open with her and tell her about it giving her assurances. If you are still interested in being with her then get to establish the real issue and address it directly.
The next, very crucial move in making this a success is by getting to talk it out with her. Communication is key in the growth of any and all relationships. It is normal to expect some tears and hard emotional moment as ladies are quite delicate when it comes to matters love and relationships and that is why you should be quick to reassure her that you are only looking to slow things down and not end things between you.
Having had the talk and handled the issue, it is appropriate that you get to set boundaries that will help you stop things from pacing up. Set date nights that are rather not spontaneous and random so that you can get to plan things and make the time and moment special for both of you.
Do not be the one to end mixed signals as you seem not man enough or sure of what you want with her or in the relationship.